There are many studies that show that appearance affects our success.
Humans tend to treat others based on how they present themselves.
Have discussions with youth about situations where appearance makes a difference.
Every day we are judged by how we look, how we dress, our table manners, our grooming, and demeanour.
We may often ignore how we appear to others, but others judge us by our appearance.
On a recent flight from Australia to the USA, the man behind me was wearing a big Stetson hat and a large belt buckle. I thought he was a cowboy returning to the USA.
I discovered he was an Australian returning to work on a farm in Alberta, Canada. This was a classic case of misjudgment by appearance.
There are many studies that show that appearance affects our success.
We do not have to dress in expensive clothes.
But well fitting and appropriate clothing makes a difference.
Good personal hygiene and appearance promote social interaction with others.
The opposite gives a bad impression.
A smile and a positive attitude make a positive impact on others.
Youth may show rebellion by wearing clothes that adults may find inappropriate.
Human beings tend to treat others based on how they present themselves.
WHY LOOK GOOD?
Because it’s the appropriate and expected thing to do when dealing with the public.
It exudes success.
It helps build relationships.
It boosts self-confidence and self-esteem.
One feels good if one looks good.
HOW TO HELP:
DISCUSS:
Review how workplaces may have dress codes where employees need to dress in a specific way and have good hygiene.
Discuss various situations where appearance makes a difference. Discuss personal cleanliness and what impact it can have.
When meeting or observing others, discuss what impression their appearance has.
PROMOTE:
Assist youth to dress appropriately for various occasions and have good hygiene.
Discuss how being self-assured and confident affect our external appearance.
DEMONSTRATE:
Dress well to demonstrate a professional appearance.
Be a role model in personal hygiene.
Have a positive demeanour to show how others react to you.
A PARENT’S GUIDE:
There is a guide available which assists parents and others working with youth.
The guide enables a person to be proactive in the success of a child’s future.
It contains activities to assist youth to gain critical soft skills.
They will become more resourceful and independent when they practice and gain these skills.
